Author: DSseeing

Is it wrong not to have a child all one life?     [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2014-7-16 11:19:49 |Display all floors
cruising Post time: 2014-7-16 11:15
why don't you explain how he is ignorant? he shows a lot of insights in his posts and he does brig ...

Robert is like a broken record.  He always talks about the so called 1% in the USA.  And how capitalism is slavery.  

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Post time 2014-7-16 11:22:29 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2014-7-16 11:14
I don´t know if you are in China or not but maybe you must have better idea about China for the ...
<There's a Chinese saying who says "The more children you have, the more blessings you'll get." The most miserable thing for most elder Chinese is to die without descendants.>


In Chinese modern times nobody cares those sayings, they can repeat it, mention it but nobody or almost nobody apply it in themselves. The one you just said it sounds nice and interesting.


They do care. If you go browse the Chinese forums, you have Chinese people complaining that their parents are calling them unfilial for not wanting to marry and have children.

DSseeing's original post shows me how deep this belief goes. I was kind of shocked to read his thoughts, but okay, I understand.

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Post time 2014-7-16 11:29:11 |Display all floors
grb Post time: 2014-7-16 11:19
Robert is like a broken record.  He always talks about the so called 1% in the USA.  And how capit ...

Well, then say he's a broken record, but he's not ignorant. But I personally don't find him repetitive.

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Post time 2014-7-16 11:32:27 |Display all floors
cruising Post time: 2014-7-16 11:29
Well, then say he's a broken record, but he's not ignorant. But I personally don't find him repeti ...

You have not been around long enough or you have not ready many of his posts.

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Post time 2014-7-16 11:33:59 |Display all floors
grb Post time: 2014-7-16 11:32
You have not been around long enough or you have not ready many of his posts.

ok i can give you this. but i feel like i like his presence here.

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Post time 2014-7-16 11:35:53 |Display all floors
robert237 Post time: 2014-7-16 10:43
My wife never had children and she's glad she didn't.
When we are out or at a restaurant and she see ...


My wife never had children and she's glad she didn't.
When we are out or at a restaurant and she sees some brat or brats misbehaving or being obnoxious
she stares at them like they are bugs.



I suggest you not to mention your wife here, she was the crystal piece excuse of my last banning
btw
If is truth what you said about her, maybe she is not prepared to have children and having with you...............better to leave it like that.


I had three kids from my previous marriage and I can say that it is not for everyone.
In the western world where EVERYTHING is looked upon as a competition of some kind the vast
majority of kids are bound to be losers.


YOU CONFUSED YOURSELF AGAIN DEAR ROBERT
if its about competition , you are talking about China.

YOU SPOIL YOUR CHILDREN N THIS THREAD
If you had past problems in this forum talking about your Chinese wife, why to bring your own kids to this forum?
What is your point?


Capitalism amplifies this by orders of magnitude.
The 99% work and suffer so the 1% can enjoy the good life.
Bringing a child into such a world is unfair and borders on barbarism.
We can thank capitalism for this.


YOU STILL TALKING ABOUT  CHINA AND ITS CAPITALISM SYSTEM
But I agree with you in this point. Recently in China people are not walking anymore, they are running all the times.
Good point Robert.


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Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2014-7-16 11:38:12 |Display all floors
grb Post time: 2014-7-15 19:03
You always seem to do a good job of showing your ignorance.

What's your problem?
If capitalism promotes innovation and creativity then why aren't scientists and artists the richest people in a capitalist nation?

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