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"Because we are willing to forgive the Nips and move on. "|
it's not about forgiving, it's about doing something positive about it.
For example if somebody murders your family, and he happened to get away with it (not in jail or on death row), and you feel so humiliated, and that it's soooo unfair, and you want to get even. Which is the situation of China today.
Supposed you can do two things:
1. you can kill the bastard, and go to jail. Or you can stalk the person, sometimes throwing rocks at his house, and you will waste your time, waste your energy, and thus you can't do anything else and remain a mental and economic wreck that you are now.
2. forget about him for now, improve your life, rebuild your family, get stronger, buy all the companies in town, so that the bastard one day will work for you, and THEN make his life miserable.
which is the smart choice?
for me the second one. Forgive or not that's your personal choice, all i ask is that you are smart about it.
For example, if i am openly hostile towards japanese (i am an overseas chinese), do you think i can get a job in japan heading up a company with 90% japanese in it? Before long i'd have a riot in my hand. And if i didn't get this job, whose loss is it? the japanese or my own loss? What you feel towards japanese is your own personal thing, and you have your reasons to feel that way, just don't drag the whole race and country with you down due to bad publicity. Be smart.
hope i make myself quite clear.