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Work in hometown or not?

Popularity 3Viewed 3372 times 2016-6-2 16:57 |System category:Life| Live, Shanghai

Here is my story.
But I think it is a common phenomenon for most of adults.

I am a girl from north of China.
In senior school, I work hard to enter a college located in metropolises, such as Beijing, Shanghai or Guangzhou.
Finally, I came to Shanghai to completed my education from 2011 to 2015, then I worked as a international specialist in a Medical CO. from 2014 till now.

In 2015, I met my childhood friend in Shanghai and we fell in love.
But with a private reason, he must go to hometown to work, and he want me to leave with him.

We argued this issue many times and no good conclusion.

1. Living in Shanghai .
>>> Earning a living is not easy in Shanghai. We need to pay house rent, transport fees.
>>>When we decide to have a marriage, we need to buy house or car.  That're a large of money. We must loan from bank an d then live in debt at least 30 years.
>>>No families and friends. And feel lonely in such busy city. 
>>>High working pressure.
>>>Convenient transportation and varieties shopping malls.
>>>Forwards in technologies.
>>>Plentiful jobs.

2.  Living in hometown.
>>>No house rent and low transport fees.
>>>We have families and friends in hometown. We can practice filial piety to parents and have a good night with friends.
>>>Low working pressure.
>>>Relatively backwards in technologies.
>>>Just state-owned enterprises are promising,like teacher and civil servant.

Go home or live in Shanghai?
If you have your comments, please show that freely.


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Reply Report eysen_chen 2016-6-3 09:07
share my opinion for you ,i think you should follow you heart to decide which one you choose. just so easy for it .
Reply Report teamkrejados 2016-6-3 19:53
"When we decide to have a marriage, we need to buy house or car" Not true! You could have a 'naked marriage' - no big wedding, no buying a house or a car, as society says you must. You can get married and later have your wedding with family and friends.
Please keep us posted on what you decide. Wish you the best!
Reply Report hahahaha123 2016-6-6 09:38
teamkrejados: "When we decide to have a marriage, we need to buy house or car" Not true! You could have a 'naked marriage' - no big wedding, no buying a h ...
Hi good morning and sorry for the late reply.
I won't surf the internet on my day off.

Thank you for your suggestion.  It is a good idea.

Last weekend, we discussed the issue again and my mind was made up finally~
We decided to go home together. Yeah~
I will quit the office this month.

Thank you for your kindness and best wishes
Reply Report hahahaha123 2016-6-6 09:41
eysen_chen: share my opinion for you ,i think you should follow you heart to decide which one you choose. just so easy for it .
Yes, it is true.

And I make my mind now——go home for love.

It is romantic~
Reply Report Funny-boy 2016-6-18 08:44
No pressure work will bring the pleasure mood, and the life will more splendid.
Reply Report hahahaha123 2016-6-21 14:18
Funny-boy: No pressure work will bring the pleasure mood, and the life will more splendid.
Yes, I have enough time to do what I want.

How about you?
Reply Report Funny-boy 2016-6-22 07:59
hahahaha123: Yes, I have enough time to do what I want.

How about you?
Confuse much more, far away from home and more presure need to be faced.
Reply Report hahahaha123 2016-6-23 16:18
Funny-boy: Confuse much more, far away from home and more presure need to be faced.
It is the same as that in me now.

Just let it go, and follow your heart.

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  • Work in hometown or not? 2016-6-23 16:18

    Funny-boy: Confuse much more, far away from home and more presure need to be faced.
    It is the same as that in me now.

    Just let it go, and follow your heart.

  • Work in hometown or not? 2016-6-23 16:18

    It is the same as that in me now.

    Just let it go, and follow your heart.

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