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i cannt imagine how hard it will be

Popularity 3Viewed 2700 times 2014-2-11 15:08 |System category:News

     something happened during the lunar new year that my bf came to visit my home and so did i. Unfortunately, when i back to my home from his, his family didnt agree with our relationship and suggested to broke up cause of long distance(it takes about 5 hours from my bf place to mine). my bf and i both feel disperated and heartbroken. he doesnt know wether he should be with me or listen to his parents. since we keep in touch for more than two years, he also cannt broke up and cannt careless his parents' advice either, so he says he wanna go to somewhere to make feel better. And says he loves me so much, so he went to his uncle's for some better advice, and his uncle adviced that we should be together but mustnt abandon parrents if when day they agreed. We still dont know what plan to take, i think it will be too hard to get his parrents agreed. And i cannt imagine how long it will take to get them agreed.
     this is a doom's day for me. guys, give me some advice please.
     

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Reply Report Dr.Bill.Shen 2014-2-11 17:45
Can either of you two make a move so as to have you both live in the same city? If you both are the only child in family respectively, this is gonna be really impossible to do. My own experience with long distance relationship had proven nothing short of being disastrous. You are cherishing an imaginative figure created by your own wishful thinkings. The ruthlessly stark contrast between your imagined prince and real-life bf could easily have yourself gutted. Wish you best luck in finding a solution.
Reply Report grace32 2014-2-12 08:44
Dr.Bill.Shen: Can either of you two make a move so as to have you both live in the same city? If you both are the only child in family respectively, this is gonna b ...
thanks for your statment on my blog, and made me feel inspired. i will try my best to find a good solution.     Actually, yesterdaynight he said we should be together and do things as our dream made, and will buy house to let his parents live in order to live them nearer us, thus we can take good care of them. he is only guy in his family, but i am not.
Reply Report wj3235 2014-2-15 21:54
his parents dont agree with ur relationship?It seems that this problem should be considered by ur parents not his parents,unless  you request that he should  live with u after u get married.
Reply Report grace32 2014-2-17 08:49
wj3235: his parents dont agree with ur relationship?It seems that this problem should be considered by ur parents not his parents,unless  you request that he  ...
thanks so much

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