My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and we've been fighting a lot lately because of his attitude. I don't even have to confront him about anything. Sometimes I'll just make something in a wrong way or forget something he asked me to do or just not understanding what he says and he'll get this impatient tone and it makes me feel like I'm stupid.
When I try to talk to him REALLY CALMLY about it, he gets defensive. I know he loves me and when we're not fighting, he's the sweetest boyfriend ever but I've come to a point where I'm scared to say anything because I don't know how he's going to react. I told him that I'd break up if it doesn't change, but I know he makes efforts and we love each other so much that I just can't do it. I know that our relation would be perfect if he'd just be more patient and less defensive, since it's the only problem we have. I'm not perfect and I make mistakes too, but he doesn't seem to understand it.
Your advice and opinions are very welcomed.