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dusty1 Post time: 2015-9-13 16:03
You have no idea what you are talking about it just lies from your twisted imagination and probabl ...

I am not married or ever will. You did marry your first wife, promised to love her forever. Unless she is dead, you are a liar.

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mixamixa Post time: 2015-9-13 22:05
I am not married or ever will. You did marry your first wife, promised to love her forever. Unless ...

So your gay

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dusty1 Post time: 2015-9-13 16:11
So your gay

Gays can get married in Finland if they want. I rather enjoy life than make a commitment you couldn't keep either.

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incarnate Post time: 2015-9-13 20:06

You know in the past, when you corrected me, and I thought you were right, I accepted it without getting mad at you. Whether or not you agree with me here, I hope you don't get mad, because I'm not attacking you.

It's not that white people don't lie, but they don't lie like Chinese do. Western culture, and especially American culture, does value honesty. Tell me if Chinese value honesty? The answer is no, right? Is honesty the best policy? Many westerners will say yes. What does Chinese say? No, right?

Chinese will defend lying, and they will say dishonesty is caring for the face of the other person. If you're just lying to strangers, maybe it's not so important, but some Chinese families take it so far as to lie to family members, because you need to give face within the family as well.

Whereas honesty is encouraged in western culture, but dishonesty, rather than honesty, is encouraged in Chinese culture--just read the old blogs written by Chinese here. So although you can find liars in both cultures, but there's a big difference in its acceptance level.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't need a reply, because I'm leaving. But at least please consider it, because it's a serious fault in Chinese culture, and one that encourages pretense, which is the opposite of happiness.

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incarnate Post time: 2015-9-14 05:34

Chinese children lie and hide the truth because they don't want to take responsibility for their own actions, this is the Chinese parenting style. YOU ARE A PARENT NOT THE CHILDS FRIEND, that's how it's supposed to be.

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