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Is it normal to have no real friends??   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2013-8-6 17:35:44 |Display all floors
Is it something wrong with me??

i know lots of people, i go out a lot, when we go out for drinks most people like me , cuz i try to be happy all time, but at the end of the day they i feel so lonely because they dont call me to go out, i have to call them over and over to find out what they are doing, and when the do call me its just because they know i have a car and i have money, they are fake as hell, they talk behind my back, and behind everyone's back, i got used to it, i just figured most people is fake these days.

i just cant find a real friend, im very smart, and i know about everything plus i know how to move around, so they keep calling me when they have problems, since i always try to do what is right i do help them, but when i need help, noone is there for me.




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Post time 2013-8-6 20:05:54 |Display all floors
Dara, what you describe is not that uncommon, especially amongst those with brains and who are not in to falsehood. I spent a lot of my life in a similar situation to yours with very few "real" friends that I could trust with anything of importance.

One day you will meet the right friends and people, it may just take some time!
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Post time 2013-8-7 04:08:13 |Display all floors
FRIENDS i have plenty (more than my bank savings account) around even in this forum but real friend i'm just not sure if i have any. you're just bein nice & win their hearts but me i'm just too picky & careful in term of selectin the whatsocalled, FRIENDS  {:soso_e113:}{:soso_e128:}{:soso_e114:}
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Post time 2013-8-7 16:21:56 |Display all floors
Open your hearts and look for happiness. Never mind about friends. They're supposed to come naturally
Life is what you make of it

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