This post was edited by KristaChen at 2013-8-5 09:05
It's not about you want, it's about how many you are allowed to have. I have my daughter at 40, I do not want to have one more. Nobody rewarded me of getting married later as the Chinese policy required . and no reward for my little daughter being the only child of the family . But, i was asked to have a check whether i was pregrnant twice a year. I felt very angry about it. One winter, i was very sick and had to get injection everyday. The person from one child policy office kept calling me to have a check. I said i was too sick to have examine and i can show them my doctors' report, they didn't believe me. I feel i have no right to be myself at that moment...we were not trusted in terms of having child. if i were to have one more kid, i shall wait at least 5 years till my body is fully recovered from my first born, why i wasn't trusted? I do believe such thing won't happen in other countries.
KristaChen Post time: 2013-8-5 09:02
It's not about you want, it's about how many you are allowed to have. I have my daughter at 40, I do ...
yesterday was the day to have those married women to get checked again. I hate it but still have to go. Once, i was threatened i might not able to change my job or my daughter's future will be harmed if i don't go for such a check.
This post was edited by KristaChen at 2013-8-5 15:14
戏魅 Post time: 2013-8-5 11:33
You have your first child at your 40. It is so late to have the first born. Why on your age have the ...
I mean they checked me after my first born. and they said I had to be checked till my daughter turned to 15. Then, I will be 55. Many people at my age have more than one kid, I don't know why they didn't catch those people. It's later to have my first child, and my body was badly hurt during the operation, I myself even doubted if i still have the ability to born one more child. Isn't it ironic to force me to be checked twice a year?