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PPsally - It depends on the man, and also the woman.|
In the city nightlife here in Chicago, it is not uncommon for a man and a woman to meet in a bar, have a few drinks together, then go back to one of their places and have sex. They didn't even have a "first date!" But they had the same expectation, so no problem.
Afterwards, they might decide whether they want to escalate to a proper relationship. If not, then they decide whether to keep having sex and be free, or go to the next level and maybe settle down.
If you find a guy who is used to this kind of lifestyle, he will shock you with his expectations.
When dating, you should set the expectations, whether you are looking for a domestic or foreign partner. If you say you want to take a while to get to know each other prior to having sex, then "those types of guys" will not even reply to you, and will save you all kinds of time and trouble, right?
I agree, you shouldn't have to say that. But that is just your background. Not everyone is like that. It doesn't make those people bad, just different.
Some people also feel like: "If the sex isn't good, then why would I continue with the relationship?" (ignoring the fact that it can be improved with good communication)