Love vs money in marriage

Mike412

A girl asked me yesterday, and i really have no idea how to say. She is 29 and has a very loving and perfect boyfriend except that he is not that loaded compared with other boys. All her family is persuading her to marry a richer gay. They love her and do not want her to live a hard life. She do not want to be a gold-digger, but still want to have a better life.  She told me that getting married is considered to be the second birth in China; if you make a good decision, the rest of your will be good, or you just have to live a hard life worring about money all the time. So, love vs money. What is your word?

WhiteBear

to be sold, or to be loved, that is the question...

seriously - looking for a prince may end like this

Mike412

WhiteBear Post time: 2013-3-20 15:12
to be sold, or to be loved, that is the question...

seriously - looking for a prince may end l ...

like the way you talk, sharp and have a sense of humor

truthbetold1

WhiteBear Post time: 2013-3-20 15:12
to be sold, or to be loved, that is the question...

seriously - looking for a prince may end l ...

Great picture WhiteBear!

truthbetold1

My understanding of some women is that finding the right guy with money is important so they don't have to struggle with the finances.

Today material society has gotten so bad that many women worry so much about not having the luxury life.

bigbull

in today's society money rules not love.

Mike412

bigbull Post time: 2013-3-21 08:40
in today's society money rules not love.

So, are you saying that i should also tell her to find a richer guy?