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Post time 2013-3-27 08:56:47 |Display all floors
WhiteBear Post time: 2013-3-20 15:12
to be sold, or to be loved, that is the question...

seriously - looking for a prince may end l ...

I don't know whether you are a foreigner.  your English is so well.
there are differences about the marriage in China.many girls don't have the courage to end an unhappy marriage. and they are not strong enough to be dependent.
get busy living ,or get busy dying

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Post time 2013-3-27 10:04:31 |Display all floors
Chris.chen Post time: 2013-3-27 08:56
I don't know whether you are a foreigner.  your English is so well.
there are differences about th ...

Yes, I'm foreigner, but English is not my primary language.

I heard about problems about to decide for divorce, and I understand a cultural background behind it.
Women in China are formally equal to men since communist times, but it takes many generation to put it into practice.

But I don't understand "they are not strong enough to be dependent"... if You mean "independent" - I would agree, it is truth for many women, and not only in China.


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Post time 2013-3-28 06:42:21 |Display all floors
My GF tells me a story, A story about a women that listens to her friends and family and marries a wealthy man because it will make her life easy. Later she learns this man is never satisfied and very proud and wants more of everything, marriage is no good and they eventually divorce.
Then she tells me about her Sister and her husband. He has no money and is very humble, he loves her sister very much and takes care of her and they are both very happy.
Give me the woman that does not care about money but wants to be loved any day.

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Post time 2013-3-28 09:13:15 |Display all floors
WhiteBear Post time: 2013-3-27 10:04
Yes, I'm foreigner, but English is not my primary language.

I heard about problems about to decid ...

it is my mistake ,it should be indenpent.
I always make mistakes ,but I am trying to avoid it
I wonder whether your spoken English is so well .
you are right ,many regions has the same problems.
ONS is more and more popular everywhere,  I can understand.
but concubine (小三)is  rare in other countries. and the source is dependent.
get busy living ,or get busy dying

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Post time 2013-3-28 09:19:38 |Display all floors
Danybrit Post time: 2013-3-28 06:42
My GF tells me a story, A story about a women that listens to her friends and family and marries a w ...

the result can be forecasted,  she needs money ,he needs beautiful young girls,  when they can't be satisfied  with the other. things change.
if she wants love besides money.  why does he choose her?
get busy living ,or get busy dying

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Post time 2013-3-28 09:44:08 |Display all floors
Danybrit Post time: 2013-3-28 06:42
My GF tells me a story, A story about a women that listens to her friends and family and marries a w ...

Yes, I heard that stories from some of my friends over the years. Even not in China :) It is "worldwide issue".

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Post time 2013-3-28 16:03:45 |Display all floors
WhiteBear Post time: 2013-3-28 09:44
Yes, I heard that stories from some of my friends over the years. Even not in China :) It is "worl ...

marry a guy has money or has no monry???  marry a guy who is willing to spend money for u.

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