I have been offered an amazing promotion, but it will require me to move to Shanghai.
This means leaving my boyfriend for three years, who has ties to Beijing and can’t come with me.
I want this job so bad, it would be wonderful… but I love him and it just hurts so bad to leave him. I will also have to leave my family, my friends, my entire life here.
I am afraid that I could lose him by moving but I am afraid that I might resent him if I stay and feel I held myself back to be with him. However, I don’t have much confidence in the long-distance relationship.
Please help me. What can I do?