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Is marriage the tomb of love?   [Copy link] 中文

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Some people often say marriage is the tomb of love. I am afraid of getting married and having kids. They say you have no spare time for shopping, doing your hobbies or you even have no your private life. Does the marriage end the private life of the spouses? Do kids take whole the time of mothers that prevent them to have a free space and enjoy life? Do you have any advices? Thanks in advance.


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Post time 2012-12-5 18:15:37 |Display all floors
Being married only means sharing your social life and having consideration for someone else. It also requires compromise and perhaps patience.

Having kids is a whole different ball game. You need to be prepared to dedicate your life to them and put your own needs in second (or third or fourth) place. They are YOUR responsibility, don't assume that others will always be there to help and don't expect to be appreciated. If you choose a spouse well, the responsibilities will be shared.

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"I am afraid of getting married and having kids."........afraid of? U! should not get married having such kind of thoughts in your mind!
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The general rule is that people who enjoy life also enjoy marriage.

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why so many guys hope to marriage if  that is the tomb really

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Marriage is an institution  .........   !


Who in their right mind would want to live in an institution  ...........      


What the world needs is more geniuses with humility, there are so few of us left  -   Oscar Levant

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different things kill love ,such as behaviour ,lack of respect shenme de.
As far as liberty is concerned we are obliged to sacrifice a part of it but even if we are unmarried we are never completely free.My marriage gave me many obligations but has not influenced my independence at all.
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