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This post was edited by longzhou at 2012-5-16 16:49|
This is a two way road M. On the one side you should understand the cultural differences between your country and the one you are living in; in China, true, girls are used that males pay everything for them. On teh other side, she should understand that she's with a foreigner and thus maybe not used to this situation since it is not common (I would even say very unfrequent) back in your country.
Being from Wenzhou, land of great business people, it wouldn't suprise me if she asks for you to buy a house, since in China, many times, marriage is consider like a business transaction. Of course you can say NO, and that will be it; but her parents will not be willing to accept your relationship.
My advise; try to explain to her that you need time to adapt to such things (giving your salary to her once youa re married, letting her eventually check your mobile phone calls and messages, etc...). My guess is that, additionally you might not be very fluent with the language so that means many cultural things that happen around a couple escape your understanding; for example 女人说话, 男人听话! (women speak, men listen).
Wish you good luck and patience.