This post was edited by Notfear at 2012-5-18 15:26|
I hope somebody can help me with a better understanding of how I best deal with this aspect in a relationship with a chinese girl.
I gonna make a short statement to solveyour problem
I have read some long posts saying a lotbut without real meaning or sincerity
Do you know the meaning of CONSIDERATION???
There are many ways to measure the love ina relationship
Respect each other is a MUST but also ifyou find a CONSIDERATED person as a love partner, you got it all.
Sadly in China most women are materialistic,it’s a tradition, its part of Chinese culture, that’s a fact
Now with the growing economy in thiscountry, part of the new generation takes the short and easy way to reach theirgoals and your gf is one of them
Maybe you can find a nice and non materialisticChinese girl, they exists but when you develop the relationship further and tryingto make marriage plans, her family will spoil her, parents, relatives orfriends will damage her and she always at the end will listen to them, you willbe forced to take high “responsabilities” (money involved and expenses). Ifboth of you have a good stable economy it wont be a problem.
Now, if you finally want to get a Chinesegirl as you really want who can suit your life style, they also exists butmaybe they are in jail for their “liberal” thoughts or sadly you can findmiddle age women who are trying to get a new chance in life., those who arerejected from their family or society for being old single or divorced.
My final suggestion is
BE CONSIDERATED to yourself
You know now what to do.