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sorry, of course I am in China and I understand and adapt to your culture and customs however|
as you see, I AM NOT CHINESE. And if you wish to be with me, you will have to change and adapt to my culture just as much as I do to yours.
in fact, i think it is quite stupid for ANYONE to think they should pay for all stuff.
its so silly to think that way. its a new world folks. time to wake up and smell the coffee.
tell her what usually happens in western culture, if she disagrees dump her. we can help you find another love.
i never accept those customs because i am not, will never be, a chinese person. its easy to understand these things but i would not put myself into that position because i can't change who i am.
if she wants a guy to pay for everything, she should have a chinese guy. simply put.
and in another defense of western man in china
if a chinese woman gets a guy to pay for everything whilst she doesn't do a thing(or put in money) then what happens after they marry and then he bails on her later?
what does she have? nothing..
ive seen many of my female friends have this problem. they get married and don't do anything for their own career and when they are dumps, in their 30's or 40's they have no chance to support themselves.
sorry, if China and her people want to integrate western culture, which comes along with all the FDI and export business, any female like this needs to wake up because quite honestly any person who free loads off of others is nothing more than a hire biatcha!
i could never let myself be like that. to let someone else pay for everything.
well then, if that's the case, then i should make all the decisions on everything we do.
where to live, where to work, what to eat, where to play, where is vacations etc etc.
in the western world, and now in some chinese people's minds today, that if you do not wanna support financially then you really can't complain about a thing.
nothing worse for a person's own life and feelings about themselves than sitting around and not contributing to the family you have.
its not a family, its a body part on loan
my opinion is to teach her the value of a dollar/rmb/money.
take off for awhile. go out and travel around and be with your homies more.
dont give her any money for anything. and then once she learns the value of money she could possibly be a substantial partner.
i don't admire lazy people. not because they are lazy but because they are actually not contributing to their lives and to those around them.
if she is from wenzhou she is money oriented. well i hope she has a great body because that's about all you will get from her
time for people to wake up and cover their own ass
"Everyone is responsible for pulling their own weight"
how old is she? 15???
na ge please