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This post was edited by lanjingling at 2012-2-22 20:16|
amylhz Post time: 2012-2-22 14:26
Chinese parents also want their kids to be happily married and they just feel they could see farther ...
The most of the chinese ,esp the elder generation, who married to a man or a woman without love,but goes with intermediates or match makers. From that view I do not think the parents have more knowleges or experiences to tell what their children whom should marry with , or who is the best for their son or daughter ? what the parents can see parently stay only on surface,such as job ,social statuas,backgrounds, wealthy condition. that is the only criteria for parents's eyes.
For me marry to a person over the parents wishes is very wrong mind-set which guide many couples to a dead way- devorced at the end. Just look around how many couples are staying in a previous relationships back to before marriage. I am really curious to that figures. One of my relatives who married again once told me the area that he is living in are all the 2nd marriage couples,even 3rd time marriage couples, of course, less numbers can tell. aha, so I responded, you would not feel embrassed and awkward with the same old stories.
He is the guy married over with parents' wishes as were wished to gain higher position and earn more cashes with the wife's strong backgrounds in government, All proved it was a wrong marriage. he divorced with wife and one child goes with his wife, one child goes with him. He regreted many times and many things in his life .
So, before it is so late , put yourself the owner of the life- even choose your right one.