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Love and marrage.
Marriage is first, a commitment that you enter into for a variety of reasons, one of which should be mutual love. |
Becoming physically infatuated with someone outside of marriage is common, but counterproductive. In this situation you need to get counseling and help to think clearly about your situation, and your marriage.
~ What is it that attracts you to the new person? Looks, money, position, personality, fun-factor etc.
~ Was there some reason your marriage was in trouble or failure? No sex, money issues, different lifestyle preferences, lack of personal connection, etc.
~ Are you willing / able to make a choice that you can live with? Remember that many who end marriage for some other person will not marry that home-wrecker.
~ Are there things in your marriage that need changed and can be changed? duty sharing, time sharing, money sharing, even sex, all these issues are open to negotiation.
In the end, your marriage is what you make it to be, not what has been imposed on you by others. It takes two to make a marriage succeed, but only one to make it fail.