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Originally posted by greatlady at 2010-12-30 20:32
How are you doing?
I am doing so-so,life is little out of control and I am trying to put all together,and the dog,it takes me too much time to take care of esp.in this bad moments, ...
I happend to know that our parents didn't take care of you since you,your one yr old son and your husband moved to another city. I knew why you did not contact home often.I knew how hard life you had when you decided to buy apartment by down payments,I knew how I reacted to you when I heard that you did not care too much of our parents. I did criticize you but I did not know that you were trying to save a penny to support your son and your apartment. Yeah,as me,it was hard to understand the life as you led before,it was so shocked to hear that you got caner,and your lungs was black like heavy smoker( it is your 10 yrs job make ur lung like that and I heard that you never wear masks when you worked in chemical factory). It was very hard to understand you that you refused accountant position because your monthly salary will be less 100 yuan than that worked in work shop with overtimes works. I didn't know that, If I know that,I woud save 100 yuan each month and posted to you.
Now I know,and it is too late for me to know the fact,and father also knows,he cried a lot each time we visited you in hospital. he felt so much pain and regrets not knowing how ur job was and how ur life was. if we knows,we must have done sth for you, at least our Number three Uncle was a headchief in down town. but,you were just being so strong and not let us know your life.( Sadly the fact is,if the daughter got married,the Chinese parents woudn't care so much of their life any more).