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Post time 2010-7-2 14:37:03 |Display all floors
What if both you and your spouse are qualified to apply for a same position in a same company? Will you both apply for the position and then compete for it? or, will you give up the chance and help your partner to get it? If your spouse really reach the goal, will you be a little bit jealous and uncomfortable? no matter whether you two both apply for the job, or one of you quit, the issue will affect your relationship, right?
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Post time 2010-7-2 16:33:26 |Display all floors
Originally posted by polaris1120 at 2010-7-2 14:37
What if both you and your spouse are qualified to apply for a same position in a same company? Will you both apply for the position and then compete for it? or, will you give up the chance and help ...

either it is your spouse or your friend when competition starts this is the end of the relationship.
When you truly love your partner or your friend then you do not need to compete.In reality you do not feel like competing.
When you compete somebody it means that there is some kind of jealousy hidden,you want to feel superior .
Competition between a couple or friends bring the end of the healthy and true relationship:Q
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Post time 2010-7-2 17:38:00 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2010-7-2 16:33

either it is your spouse or your friend when competition starts this is the end of the relationship.
When you truly love your partner or your friend then you do not need to compete.In reality yo ...


Old Hen, when do you become an agony aunt? Do you forget that you spilled your gut out to Force One about your emotional problem and your infidelity when you said you have a white night and have to take pills.

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Post time 2010-7-2 17:43:48 |Display all floors

I would certainly do it......

and I would encourage my couple to do it to. Not because of the competition factor but of the opportunity factor for the couple. Here's the explanation.

If one member applies, that's one opportunity to land that good job.
If both members apply then the opportunity doubles.

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Post time 2010-7-2 17:52:14 |Display all floors
Originally posted by ilearnabc at 2010-7-2 17:38


Old Hen, when do you become an agony aunt? Do you forget that you spilled your gut out to Force One about your emotional problem and your infidelity when you said you have a white night and hav ...



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Post time 2010-7-2 17:53:42 |Display all floors

I agree, both.

Originally posted by longzhou at 2010-7-2 17:43
and I would encourage my couple to do it to. Not because of the competition factor but of the opportunity factor for the couple. Here's the explanation.

If one member applies, that's one opportu ...

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Post time 2010-7-2 17:59:37 |Display all floors
Originally posted by betrayed at 2010-7-2 17:53


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