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Among all relations , love is the only one that happens by coincidence . Eileen Chang had a comment that best explains the subtlety of pre-destined relationship: at the right time and right place you meet no one other than him or her . This is how it happened .
It is no difficult to love or to be loved . the hard part it to meet the person who loves you and it is him or her you are most fond of . or you find no real love otherwise. Love is spark that ignited by the two of you , love is not solo play . Rid the notion that love is when you have a crash on somebody . if he or she happens to have no affection on you , no matter how hard you try, your wishful thinking will undoubtedly lead you to nowhere .
We hence understand that we don’t intentionally go after love , neither does it lies somewhere to be discovered . we wait , gracefully wait ,for the advent of real love , it is a natural process in our life .Love is the banging of your heartbeat set by an eye-contact after a chance meet , love is the gentle caring you unexpectedly receive in a tiring trip .
Tie Ning, a famous writer , hadn’t been married until 50 . she once said : “your best bet is to marry the right person . or not at tall anyway ” .
What’s the definition of “right” ? the answer is: mutual understanding , zero distance between two hearts ! The well-respected writer Madam Bing Tsin once asked her , holding her hand , “ Do you have a boy friend ?” . Blushed Tie Ning said “ Not yet , I am dating currently” . Madam Bing Tsin, in her 90, then padded her hand and said some words that deserve deep reflection : “what you need to do is just to wait .” With this nearly 100 years of life experience deposited wisdom , she succinctly yet profoundly deciphered the secret of love , offering a love prescription for Lady Tie Ning , then aged 34 .
Never look for a boy friend . if you intend to “find” a boy friend , you involuntary attach some irrelevant strings to love , consequently you end up losing the most important quality of love——purity. Be it a mate , or a husband , what you actually “found” is not a lover at any rate
The lover——your soul mate——appears at the right time when you are waiting out there . there is no better option other than wait , this is how it goes . It is waiting that makes love beautiful , terrific and emotional .Just like flower that comes out at the right time, love blossoms gracefully only if you put up with the ticking of time .
I usually thought I would live all at ease staying with a man who loves me . and it seemed to be the case , I was treated like a princess . However ,the 3-year relationship ended when another man came into my life, things are totally different , we love each other . I saw clearly a flower of love is flourishing in the depth of my heart , radiantly inter-reflecting with my sweetheart’ love .
Never before had I been being so aware of my hast and thoughtlessness in the first place . Granted ,loneness is hard and time flies like an arrow , in addition to the sear of gossips , no one is willing to age lonely . The advice is , never get on the wrong ship before the one that truly belongs to you arrives .
Life entails persistent pursuit， and love happens out of Kama in the process , naturally . So remain to be affectionate , take everything as they are , wait gracefully , Cupid will open the door of love for you .