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If you fall in love with someone who have had a wife,what will do next? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2009-5-8 23:38:44 |Display all floors
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I met him 3 years ago. I was born in a very poor family and he helped me pay for university when I
was still a undergraduate. Everytime I was depressed he always came to cheer me up. After I graduated
from university,he helped me find a job.He said that he considered me as his daughter. In fact,we stayed
together for many nights. I think I love him,but he has had a wife and a happy family。。。
I really don't know what I should do next。。。

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Post time 2009-6-24 16:41:30 |Display all floors
I think that if you love him very much and feel happy with him, you may stay with him. but after all he have a wife and have a family. As a man, responsiblities to family is important for him. I believe that he must love you too very much for youth and beauty. perhaps, you can give hime something he don't get form his family. the thing you must understant is that you don't think to ask him divorce with his wife and marry with you. It's impossible. even though what you think come true, you will impossibly happy in you life. you must remember.

if you don't love him, just want to thank him for helping you in your university. i advice you leave him as soon as possible. before the longer you stay with him, the more pain you wil feel.

you still have a long road in you life, you should start your new life and find a new boyfriend who love you. I wish you happy.

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Post time 2009-6-24 17:00:45 |Display all floors
"we stayed
together for many nights",

that what he want , pretty good!

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Post time 2009-6-24 17:02:12 |Display all floors
Originally posted by ZYXIAN1008 at 2009-5-8 23:38
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I met him 3 years ago. I was born in a very poor family and he helped me pay for university when I
was still a undergraduate. Everytime I was depressed he always came to cheer me up.  ...



is that your DESTINY????

if NO, let go

if YES, Pray for the BEst

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Post time 2009-6-24 20:30:06 |Display all floors
Be his friend, but find yourself someone else to love.  It's a better path for you to take.

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Post time 2009-6-24 21:39:35 |Display all floors
There is a way, that is to be his second wife, if possible, go for a country where plural marriage is allowed and legal

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Post time 2009-6-24 21:43:06 |Display all floors

Mormon

polygamous life may not be bad. provided that your man shall manage his first wife agree and be agreeable to be so

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