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Monday, May 04, 2009|
Sometimes I don’t understand the word “appearance”, is it connect with success? Is men are like women, that beautiful women are not smart and smart women are not beautiful? This is the question I argued with my friend yesterday.
At first I talked about my experience, I told her that I met some very excellent men, but they are not handsome. In other word, they are a bit ugly. Let give one example, yesterday I met one friend, he is unmarried, I think mostly because of his appearance, he is not tall but very fat, not normal but very fat, and beside, his skin is dark, with his height and weight, and black skin, we can say he is a ugly man.
But with that ugly appearance, he is excellent in others, he bought a big house of his own, and he is a department manager in a famous company, I think he must be work hard and study hard, so he can be promoted and got well-paid.
That is another example, also a friend that worked for famous company and also a department manager, but he isn’t tall, he is only 160, but he is so successful.
Sometime I don’t really understand this world, I don’t know that the appearance is important or not, but at the first appearance, we do care about it. Or maybe the God is equal to everyone? That nobody is perfect.