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i totally agreed 110% with u as i hv the true experience with a Beijing girl in chao yang district who left me becoz of $$$$$
You're lucky that she left you - I think you deserve someone better ;)
However, I don't think money is the main reason why a lot of Chinese women go for foreign men. I believe that they rather project certain hopes in that white guy, which is why they can even fall in love with you if they they haven't talked to you much so far and has never met you in life. It's normal for a irl to have expectations in a new potential partner and often imagine things to be much more beautiful than they actually are, and a foreign man might be the right person to project these expectations on. This is why some Chinese girls even leave Chinese millionaires to be with a poor foreigner - not because of the foreigner himself, but because of the dreams and hopes they see in him.
However, you can't build up a life on dreams and at some point, the girl figures out that her dream man is also just a human being, with good and bad traits, with feelings and expectations. Then she either loves him even more - or the whole thing breaks appart.
Anyway, you don't need to be a western guy to make a girl fall in love with you - also as a Chinese guy, you can be a strong (mentally, not physically), smart person who makes the girl feel that she can rely on you. But no matter where you are from, always remember that in the end, the girl has to love you, not your surface - so be yourself and try to find a girl who loves you for what you are and whom you can love for what she is.