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Post time 2009-4-3 15:16:06 |Display all floors
Dear CD friends, I want to ask you how to tackle some problems in  interpersonal relationship in my company. I graduted last year, then  left from my hometown, came to seaside city for job, In Sep,2008, I became a foreign trading clerk in my company. And my colleague came to this company a month later. She is a person who never speaks her mind, and very long -winded. She always asked me the same question again and again. And she is also very cowardly in my opinion, she would do everthing after several confirmations, and she  always told our boss that she did it according to what I said. She made me very boring. What should I say to her so that it wouldn't hurt her. After all, we are working together everyday!

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Post time 2009-4-3 19:01:46 |Display all floors
Originally posted by alfaable at 2009-4-3 15:16
Dear CD friends, I want to ask you how to tackle some problems in  interpersonal relationship in my company. I graduted last year, then  left from my hometown, came to seaside city for job, In Sep, ...

trading clerk?
what is the position? for selling directly to customer?

I thought you should ignore her.

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Post time 2009-4-3 20:15:06 |Display all floors

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any connection betweet your position and hers?
Heavens bless you & me!

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Post time 2009-4-3 20:26:23 |Display all floors
Tell her to think it her way.

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Post time 2009-4-4 14:28:44 |Display all floors
ask her to  handle things by  herself  first
if she really don't know how to do ,then ask u ,
as u said we  know she is just a rookie who lacks of experiences .
so sometimes  she turn to  u for help  is quite natural .
be patient and teach her relevant job knowledge .
only if   does  she master   some relevant knowledge ,she'll do it by herself.

[ Last edited by will2008 at 2009-4-4 02:29 PM ]

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Post time 2009-4-6 14:17:07 |Display all floors
let her to do something by herself, it is normal, u should tell her that it is good for her to do something by her opinion, if there is something not sure, she can ask your boss direcly

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