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Tuesday, April 28, 2009|
I am the first daughter of my family, I have three younger brothers and one sister, I don’t realize what is the difference between the one that in the middle or the youngest one, and now I am clearly understand what my responsibility.
When I was just started go to out for job, I am very lonely, I saw my friends that were gathering together with their family in other city, they rent the house together, or their relation came and visited them regularly. I envied them and wished I will be one of them, that can see my family in another city.
The follow years, my first younger brother came out and worked, but he was in other city, which was a bit far away, I didn’t visit him and he didn’t visit me for many years. However the two cities weren’t that far, when he has difficulties, he would ask me for help. For example, when he was short of money, he asked money from me, but I have never ask money from him, I thought I am the older one, it was a shame to ask money from younger brother.
As the time went by, I helped him a lot, which more than he can offers me, when he wanted to buy a computer, I gave mine to him and only ask few money back.
At the beginning of this year, my second brother came out and worked at nearby city, and he also asked help from me, like money and accommodation, sometimes I need to go out of my room so that he can have a place to rest on. I don’t like sleep with others, but because of him, I have to ask help from colleagues.
Also this year, my sister asked me for mobile phone, then I bought a new mobile phone and gave my old one to her. when she said she has five days off on labor holidays and asked to stay with me for five days, the first thing came into my mind is:” How much money remains in my pocket? Do I have enough money to spend?”
Just now, my second brother said:” I have quit my job and will go to your place to stay for several days.” Then I went to the management department to check in.
To be the first kid in the family isn’t a easy job.