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Post time 2009-3-26 15:46:31 |Display all floors
some countries treat "dead" as meaning of "born"
some one come this world,they would happy on it
some one leave from this world,they also like taking a celebration there..haha
interesting........

yep,i most agree with their comprehendsion of died,
to be tolerant and to be positive.

i don't know why  even hate chinese cry for someone died.
there are many ways to show u are missing him/her.
if live is not killed by disaster,or kill by him/herself,
y not let go?[/
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Post time 2009-3-27 00:14:17 |Display all floors
You're bound to cry when a loved one dies arn't you ?

But perhaps our perceptions of death should be different.   In the west we have all these morose funerals and a Church service where everybody weeps.

I prefer to remember people as they lived and ive never believed that 'death' is final-we just change form and move on.

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Post time 2009-3-27 11:20:47 |Display all floors
feel very sad as i could never met someone again,so i cry for the past of people i love

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Post time 2009-3-27 11:27:25 |Display all floors
is this can be a question?!
u cry because u feel sad,the guy we couldn't see forever, we cry because we care about that .

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Post time 2009-3-27 11:34:12 |Display all floors
Originally posted by sheila_ling at 2009-3-26 15:46
some countries treat "dead" as meaning of "born"
some one come this world,they would happy on it
some one leave from this world,they also like taking a cel ...

We cry when someone die, usually because we cherich the times with her/him. We want to give her/him much more things we can.
We cry because we like the times spending with her/him. We can't let her/him go. Maybe now she/he is suffering a lot, but later we want her/him  to enjoy something good. So crying for someone, we think, it is a way for expressing our love.

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Post time 2009-3-27 15:50:47 |Display all floors

diffrent culture

Wailing is our traditional culture
In countryside,there still exists the special programme
Though I dislike  it too,esp.those who emply others to bawl for their parent

now we can make desicions to wail or not
to mourn our love in any way
But as science proves,it's better to abreact by crying
which is good for physical

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Post time 2009-3-28 02:57:31 |Display all floors
Originally posted by sheila_ling at 2009-3-26 15:46
some countries treat "dead" as meaning of "born"
some one come this world,they would happy on it
some one leave from this world,they also like taking a cel ...


Some cultures celebrate the beginning and the ending of life

Especially ending a  meaningful life is a just cause for joyful celebration!     :)

Unexpected deaths often triggered sorrow and regret

Some signaled the end of significant emotional and financial supports!  :)

Happy or sad?

Can be both!

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