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Andy99, I think what you have here is not a cultural battle, but a personal one. A clash between individual traits. She is an independent woman and there is nothing wrong with that, but I know the type. Today, she doesn't want to mix with your family, tomorrow, she will frown if you do. Then your friends. You may want to find out how close she is to hers. Some people are just not sociable.|
I understand love is a personal thing. You should feel it in your heart. But, when love is present, you shouldn't feel less, which is what she seem to make you feel.
You do not need such motivation. You motivate yourself to win a better woman than her. She is not bad, but she doesn't seem to be your type!!
Personally, I wouldn't go for this type, as where I come from, be it poor or bad, my identity is important to me. My family and friends are important to me. If my love will destroy all those, off she goes!
But, like I said, this is just a personal thing. If you 2 are just having fun, but not serious about marriage or commitment, none of these matter. I just want to make sure, you don't live with the conflict after the marriage that's all.
Good Luck! You've got good head on your shoulders. Think deep and decide the best for yourself.