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Originally posted by St_George at 2010-6-11 16:16
What about older divorced Chinese women seeking laowai ?
They tell me they are shunned by Chinese men as ' used goods ' but i cant see how that works for the older divorced men themselves. Sure ...
Well... what's being said is that a well rounded clean shaven true and filial Chinese male has to have already been taken, or reserved well in advance, so for anyone over the age of 30 and still not yet hitched, then something has to be wrong with the guy(s)...
For this group, second comings of springs, as is termed in Chinese -- not second hand -- are not a problem because it's a relationship between two consenting adults who likely have full understanding of each others past history...
However, I know exactly a couple of such cases, example: both are batchlors in their 30's, banker co-workers of the Mrs, who, when opportunities presents itself, meaning being shown interest by Chinese females, quite nice looking broads too mind you, the girls was simply outright rejected and ignored by the guys. The explanation given: they don't have any taste for Chinese women who had ventured a wee too far out in the town...
They took to corresponding with and entered into relationships with counterparts from China instead and Man!!! I've never seen them any happier.
In other words, second time arounds are not a problem for the Chinese community but desertions are and once these womens desert their own world and community for those of others, they are out for good...
[ Last edited by edisonone at 2010-6-11 08:54 PM ]