Originally posted by melon1008 at 2008-12-29 16:29
Sherry, I think you should tell your husband: The marriage ring is meaningful to you. You don't care about the price it costs, but you do care about its value---it is a symbol of marriage.
Thank you Melon.
I do drop him a hint for several times. When we go shopping together, i always wandering around the counter for valuables. I even ask him if the ring is beautiful. He gives some comments but never explain why he didn't buy me a ring.
Originally posted by magneone at 2008-12-29 17:32
You will need to ask for something you can hold onto for sentimental value. There is no way around it.
Do not blame your husband: he probably just doesn't know.
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Thanks a lot for your caring, Magneone.
But how he doesn't know this? Both of us belong to the generation after 80's . There always rings show up on our friends' wedding, i am sure he knows it very well. I won't blame him, but i doubt if there is love between us. Exactly speaking, i doubt if he loves me or not. I can't live with somebody without love even if we have a two-years-old baby now. I can't bear that. Frankly speaking,I am not happy after our wedding.
[b]No ring in the wedding? No complaination? You keep silent? I just cannot imagine it. Frankly speaking, I doubt your husband's love to you. Maybe he married you just because you are pregant and as a man, he need to take the responsibility. I don't wanna to hurt you but I just want you to know my instinct and I think that if he loves you, you can feel it, right? I think you are a smart girl. Why don't you talk with your husband? Communication between wife and husband is so important. If you want to say something just say it. Do you want let the ring problem bother you in the rest of your life? Ask for a reason for the ring and your happiness right now. :)