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Originally posted by sherry52033 at 2008-12-30 09:13
Thank you Melon.
I do drop him a hint for several times. When we go shopping together, i always wandering around the counter for valuables. I even ask him if the ring is beautiful. He give ...
I really didn't know how to comfort you, you are supposed to be happy on such special occasion,you know marriage is such a unique and precious moment in our life that most people will celebrate this ceremony with a lot of energy and time.
I don't know the exact reason why your hansband did't present you a ring, maybe this issue is not about ring itself, as you say, you did't care the ring is expensive and sparking or not, I am quite certain that you are definitely not the sort of material girl. you hope your hansband could value love and relationship between you and him. while a ring is the universall cultural symbol of perpetual love on wedding ceremony. if your hansband really care about your feeling, if he is not so mean,or he may have his own reason.
since you are pregent, then he propose to you, so i am kind of sure that marriage is a sudden case to both of you. It is time and energy consuming for your hansband to prepare such a important circumstance.so if he was so busy that he forgot to buy a ring, please forgive him and be tolerant.
if he get enough money and time to choose a ring to surpise and move you while he was reluctant to do that,He is mean and pathetic(I don't want to be so judgemental). be aware of that...........marriage is not about a ring , it is about the right man you marry to. if a man refuse to spend money on you, it is hard to say that he truly love you.