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This Monday, when I invited two colleagues to have lunch. They all told me that : Get married soon, or two years later you will be "Dou Fu Zha", no one will marry you."|
Is it really?? I can't believe it. I always take a serious attitude towards life, marriage and love. I think marriage is serious topic. If the love exist, then we can build a family and come to marriage.
Last week, one of my classmates called me. He said:" Let's get married. I have bought the house and my salary and work is good and decent. If you still have requirements, tell me, and I will do to fulfill them." I told him: " No, I won't get married with you!" He asked :" Why?" I said:" I have no feeling to get married with you." He said:" Don't take too much dream or expectation on marriage and love, it doesn't work effectively. To get married with anyone will come to the same end finally." "Whether you marry to someone you love or who loves you, at last the marriage will be boring and simple." "Romantic marriage can not last for a long time."
This week, every evening I thought about marriage and love. I do believe in " love first, then marriage" I talked with my male colleagues about the marriage and love issues. They all think my attitudes towards marriage and love is naive. "No one will love you forever." "This is a fact. People are easily changable, especially the man." " To women, marriage and her husband means her world, but to men, marriage is only a process, which everyone has to experience. So they get married at proper age, finding a lady to get married.
I really can't accept the doctrine.