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first of all, im new here, just heard alot of topics about girls from Shanghai, so i would just make a post here.
i live in Canada, im from HK orginally, and i have a girlfriend from Shanghai. i date for for almost a yr now.
First of all, i know she is a bit materialistic and such, so whenever she ask me to buy this and that, i will buy. (e.g. bought her some expensive purses, $3000+, watch, clothes etc)
i dont have a problem buying ----, but all the time she will say, "ok, if you dont buy this, you dont Love me at all"
and i kind of feel sick because Love is not suppose to measure by how much money im willing to spend on you. However, i have been trying to explain this to her, and she dont get it, all she said is "im like this, all shanghai girls are like this, whenever we go out, the guy will pay, and buy them ----"
and she is in canada right now, but she is going back to SH for a month or 2, and i always wanted her to come back to canada, i guess i love her too much, but she told me one day, "if you want me to come back, you need to do one thing, which is when i come back, you need to give me all your credit cards, and debit cards, bank account etc, beucase im going to marry you"
after i heard that, i am so disappointed, is she just lack of securities? or the culture in Shanghai is just like that??
if anyone can give me some opinions, i will be greatly appreciated.