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Originally posted by bimmerm3x5 at 25-10-2008 00:54
first of all, im new here, just heard alot of topics about girls from Shanghai, so i would just make a post here.
i live in Canada, im from HK orginally, and i have a girlfriend from Shang ...
yo pal. I totally can understand you. we're quite similar ~~
First Im Dutch born Hong Kong Chinese, living working in Shanghai. And I have my own Shanghainese gf.
Together for more than 3 years now.
One difference is that mine is not that materialistc as yours...(3000 RMB is quite much stuff) oh wait, you said DOLLARS? 3000 US dollars? omg ~_~...
Anyway mine just asks once in 1 or 2 weeks a few hundred RMB clothing or other stuff. not much and when I want to say no it is no.. I guess Im lucky to find a "good Shanghainese girl". because I also know and see everywhere. these SUPER materialistic girls in Shanghai. sad but true..
It all have to do with the culture. Shanghai is a big and rich city. Where these girls are risen well-fed often in a good environment. And with big expectations for the future. future -life.
Especially young girls are materialistic. demanding EVERYTHING from their bf's. As they grow older and more mature, that would let them calm down much more and depend on theirself more.
Your gf said "if you want me to come back, you need to do one thing, which is when i come back, you need to give me all your credit cards, and debit cards, bank account etc, beucase im going to marry you"
I think this is quite............sigh... In my situation I said to my gf: "no when married MY money is mine, your fingers has holes as you spend more than me even its small few hundred things, I often think they are unneccessary, and Im the save-money-person here!" lol sounds quite hard eh.. but yeah this what I think.
I dislike going out to buy stuff, im a home-person, like to stay at home. Only buying stuff that reall needs: like eating, playing, or other stuff. I always think why women buy so many clothes, shoes, make-up stuff when they have already like 5 or 10 brands of the same product already! This is what I cannot stand about women haha... so I quite have control over my dear gf. and its good she can and listens to me if I get really serious. ~
cause I do dislike too-materialistc girls....
[ Last edited by auchengyu at 2008-10-27 03:53 PM ]