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Post time 2008-6-1 20:20:38 |Display all floors
Anybody has expertise on interracial marriage? very apprecaited to see your view and your insight about this issue.

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Post time 2008-6-1 21:04:54 |Display all floors

A matter of cultural conditioning

Originally posted by pegasus01 at 2008-6-1 20:20
Anybody has expertise on interracial marriage? very apprecaited to see your view and your insight about this issue.


The question your want to ask is: has anyone got any experience in interracial marriages?

There is no such thing as "expertise" on interracial marriages unless you are doing a new version of the  Kinsey Report on interracial marriages.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with interracial marriages.

There is however a slight gender difference in acceptance of interracial marriage. I have observed that there are more Chinese females marrying Caucasian males than vice versa, however this is anecdotal evidence and not empirical. This may be due to the difference in:
** courting behaviour of Chinese vis Caucasians (for example I tend to be more aggressive and therefore branded as "thick face-skin" by my fellow Chinese but I get my dates); or
** the societal norm and familial expectations exerting an undue influence on the Caucasian females and Chinese males (this is a sticky issue because China is an ancient culture with a lot of strictures); or
** expectations of both parties; or
** language barriers: you will need to overcome that because it is vitally important to express yourself to and communicate with your partner and not miss the nuances and inflections that might indicate some issues.

The main thing is to be able to enjoy the cultural difference; adapt and be eclectic. Enjoying the same things and doing things together often helps, so spend time together.

Throughout your marriage, especially in illiberal and socially backward countries like Australia, you will find individuals looking disapprovingly at such an arrangement. Both of you will have to rise above that and either ignore them or give them the finger. I do both, often and with gusto.

You are in this together for better or for worse and you can discuss this between yourselves openly, honestly and laugh about it.

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Why does 'interracial' mean caucasian and chinese to you? Could be African and Inuit!

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Post time 2008-6-1 21:48:11 |Display all floors

Glaznos' spam

Originally posted by glaznozt at 2008-6-1 21:24
Why does 'interracial' mean caucasian and chinese to you? Could be African and Inuit!


Ad nauseum: Chinadaily is a CHINESE newspaper, website and blog and many Chinese read it.

Yes, it could even mean Chinese and Afro-American, which is what is happening now and is a topical issue in cities like NYC. Afro-Inuit marriages are conceivably more rare.

Meng, if you are reading this, please explain to people like Glaznos that this is a Chinese newspaper, maybe Glaznos will stop spamming us then.
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Post time 2008-6-1 22:35:04 |Display all floors

money issues

i know some couples of interracial marriages. one korean man with an american woman, and one indian woman with a singaporean, and around a dozen of chinese women with caucasian men, usually with a big age gap. one woman who divorced her young husband and married this old canadian man said to me very frankly: i don't know about others, but for me i want a better life with more security financially

believe it or not, there are even more women who are "kept" by their men, for security, in their words. and those men do have their own families in their countries

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Post time 2008-6-2 11:39:22 |Display all floors

AFRICAN-AMERICANS REJECT INTERRACIAL MARRIAGES

Of all people in the  US African-Americans reject intermarriages the most.  One may ask why?

First there is the long history of 'Shang-hai'ing' Blacks and making them work for free for centuries.

Then there is the generationial memory of the 'slave breeding/raping pens' used by slavemasters to create slaves for sale.

Then there is RELIGION.  While it appears that most African-Americans are Christians, the fact is most are also 'Shangoists/Orisha' and practice 'Ancestor Veneration' and one of the rules is IN ORDER TO REINCARNATE AND NOT INSULT THE MEMORY OF THOSE PEOPLE WHO PERISHED OUT OF SLAVERY AND OPRESSION, ONE REJECTS INTERMARRIAGE WITH THE SAME OPPRESSOR OR PEOPLE WHO 'WANNABE' LIKE THE OPPRESSOR.

We are dealing with what some call 'spiritualism' but it is ancestral religion regardless.  People believe in REINCARNATION AND MAKING SURE THEY AND THEIR CHILDREN/DESCENDENTS COME BACK BETTER, AND 'AS IS,' PHYSICALLY.

Black people's religion comes from the Egyptian/Cush religion of SOLAR/NATURE AND ANCESTOR WORSHIP/RECOGNITION.  Therefore, intermarriage is to many African-Americans just as bad as doing wrong and going to hell.

The idea of 'not fraternizing' with evil (people who continue to practive evil to this day) and who have shown their true colors (as one sees with the political season in the US, WHERE BLACKS ARE TOLD BY SOME WHITES AND OTHER 'ETHNIC' GROUPS THEY WILL NOT VOTE FOR A BLACK MAN BECAUSE HE IS BLACK -- WHAT DO YOU EXPECT.

That type of racist attitude HARDENS THE HEARTS OF MANY BLACKS AND BUILDS A HATRED THAT
IS REAL DEEP.  Why? Because for centuries Blacks have supported the human rights of every 'immigrant' group that came to the US, ONLY TO BE BETRAYED.

Whether it's the ILLEGAL VOTING OF BLACK 'PILGRIMS' AND BLACK NATIVES (ABORIGINAL BLACK AMERICAN INDIANS such as the Wa$hitaw, Wampanoag, Jamassee, Gwale and others) into slavery by the newly arrived British settlers, or whether its people from other nations trying to get 'accepted' as 'white' in America AND THEREFORE TURN THEIR NOSES AT BLACKS -- THE RESULT HAS BEEN THE SAME, BETRAYAL!

Black Americans NOW RECOGNIZE THE BETRAYAL after years of giving people the BENEFIT OF THE DOOUBT, and that recognition WILL BRING ABOUT SOME SERIOUS CHANGES IN AMERICA.  The far right-wing element will not have the counter attacking Black political and human rights machine to worry about, because SINCE EVERYONE IS FOR THEMSELVES, AND RACIST BETRAYAL IS THE GAME OF THE DAY, THEN OBVIOUSLY BLACKS WILL SIMPLY BE MORE CONCERNED ABOUT THEMSELVES AND FORGET ABOUT BUILDING COALITIONS AND FIGHTING 'THE MAN' ON BEHALF OF OTHER PEOPLE.

Finally, we must see 'interracial' relationships FOR WHAT THEY REALLY ARE.  They are a SMOKESCREEN to PRETEND THAT PEOPLE ARE TREATED EQUALLY IN AMERICA AND PEOPLE LOVE AND RESPECT EACH OTHER.

THAT IS NOT THE CASE.

THOSE PEOPLE WHO BEGAN SLAVER, GENOCIDE AND COLONIALISM IN THE AMERICAS (THE IBERIANS) SUPPORT H'RE.

Those people who MOVED FROM THE SOUTH AND EAST TO ESCAPE 'EUROPEAN FEUDALISM' (LIKE THE GERMANS, SCANDINAVIANS, WHO LIVE IN THE NORTHERN AND WESTERN US,) AND THE 'PLANTOCRACY SLAVE AND INDENTURED SERVERVITUDE SYSTEM' OF THE SOUTH, ARE THE PEOPLE WHO SUPPORTED BARAK OBAMA --

THOSE WHO WORKED FOR THE SLAVE OWNERS (AND WERE SEMI-SLAVES THEMSELVES, INCLUDING MANY SCOTTS-IRISH AND BRITISH SOUTHERN PEOPLE), ALONG WITH JUST OFF THE BOAT 'MINORITIES' WHO WERE NOT ALLOWED INTO THE US YEARS AGO AND ARE HERE ONLY BECAUSE OF BLACK STRUGGLE -- ARE THE ONES WHO GO AGAINST OBAMA -- HOWEVER, IT IS MAINLY THE OLD RACIST (ONCE CONSIDERED 'WHITES' BEFORE THE 1960'S) WHO HAVE SHOWN THEIR TRUE COLORS.

How than can anyone expect any GENUINE AND HONEST INTERRACIAL PAIRING OR RELATIONSHIPS TO OCCUR WITH THIS TYPE OF BETRAYAL AND TRICKERY.

Added to that, BLACKS SEE INTERRACIAL PAIRING AND MIXING AS GENOCIDE AND ONLY ABOUT 2 PERCENT OF BLACK PEOPLE ENGAGE IN ANY INTERRACIAL MIXING.  FOR ATHELETES, THAT NUMBER IS ABOUT 10 PERCENT.  ( SEE http://www.yaaams.org )

Yet, the fact of GENETICS is one that is being understood daily.  THE PEOPLE OF SOUTHERN AND SOUTH-EASTERN CHINA AS WELL AS THE ABORIGINES OF TAIWAN CLEARLY SHOWS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN PEOPLE MIX.

While this may shock some Chinese, the Southern Han and the Southern Chinese people including the 'minorities' are strongly of two African genes that bestow facial features. One of these genes is called 'Cde' gene, the other is the 'M' gene.

The Cde gene comes from the Kong-San and Ba-Ntu people of Congo to Southern Africa.  
That gene traveled to India and southward to Indo-China and then Central China.


The 'M' gene comes from Congo, into West Africia, to Isreal/Canaan, to Turkey and to Northern China.


http://blackmalepowermovement.fo ... t-post-207.html#207

http://nubianem.tripod.com/blackafroasia

There are two versions to the origins of the Chinese ancestors from a specific group of Africans, including EVEN AFTER THE CHRISTIAN 'GREAT FLOOD.'

Ham is the father of the Black and 'yellow' races.

Ham had four sons:  Cush, Punt, Mizr, Canaan:

Cush:  All Africans south of Egypt and West of Egypt;  South Indians of India, some Black Arabs, Mandinga-Cush (the ancient Blacks of America http://originalblacksofamericabeforecolumbus.blogstream.com )  

Punt:  All the people along the coasts from Somalia to South Africa.

Mizr:  All the Black Egyptians and Fellahim (mixed) living today; some West Africans.

Canaan:  Descendents of Canaan include those who come from Canaan's two sons, SIN AND HETH:

Sin is the 'father' of the Chinese and other Eastern Asian people, along with the Negritoes and Melanesians (who once occupied Southern China and had some very ancient kingdoms there)

and Heth whose descendents settled Turkey and moved into Northern China, Western China and include the Turkish people.  

Both the ancient Hittites and the ancient Sinites lived in THE MIDDLE EAST BEFORE MOVING TO CHINA.  At that period, both groups RESEMBLED THE PEOPLE WE CALL 'KONG-SAN' WHO ONCE LIVED IN EASTERN AND SOUTHERN AFRICA.



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Post time 2008-6-2 16:33:10 |Display all floors
i know this topic is somehow a tough issue, and its scope is over large. thanks for joining debating.

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