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Many girls have asked what true love is and how to find a guy. Originally, I had written an e-mail to vivicat20 to help her find the answers she is looking for. But, it occurred to me that many girls want to know the same things. So, I have decided to post it here for all nice, sweet girls.|
If this is of any help to you, then I am pleased. I wish you the very best in love and life.
I read your thread, and I was hoping you would find Mr. Right.
First of all, you say you are not pretty, but I have no reason to believe that. In fact, there are many things that can make a girl appear very beautiful to a guy.
I have seen many girls that are considered by many as beautiful, but they are not beautiful in my eyes, because they lack so many qualitities that I think makes a girl truly beautiful, such as kindness, caring, the ability to love deeply and faithfully. Confidence and strength are nice qaulities, too.
I have a feeling that you are a very sweet, good girl! You should never settle for less than a guy who will love you so very deeply and completely. You don't have to settle for less. There are 1.3 billion people in China; plus, there are many people all over the world. Just be patient and careful, and you will find Mr. Right.
You asked me what true love is. I would say that it is being with a person with whom the two of you love to share the same interests and many of the same views on life. There is laughter, together...and sharing and comforting each other at times of sorrow...of sharing the good and the bad. But the bad does not come from within your relationship. Those things are lifes outside problems and misfortunes.
Also, it becomes sad for both of you to be apart. Both of you would wish that you did not have to work, just so you could be together all the time, even though you do have to go to work.
A real sign of Mr. Right, along with the other things, is that you know what the other is going to say, before it is said.
Of course, true love makes affairs with others impossible. For him, you are the most beautiful, perfect girl in the world. For you, your prince becomes a mighty king, in your heart. As the two of you are in the last years of your live, your love is deeper and the two of you are one in spirit. Although both of you will be all shriveled and wrinkled with old age and years of living a full life...both of you will look into each others eyes and see more beauty and love than you could have ever imagined possible.
For such a love like that, I hope there is an after life for the both of you, that you will be together forever!