Author: debbie520

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Post time 2013-5-14 23:15:48 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2013-5-14 13:02
Seems you were abused with this kind of experiences.

You only need to go to private english language course in Guangzhou or Shanghai to find out whether it's true or not.

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Post time 2013-5-16 14:32:23 |Display all floors
liuyedao Post time: 2013-5-14 23:15
You only need to go to private english language course in Guangzhou or Shanghai to find out whethe ...

Have you attended in those schools? Seems at least you have learn to write in English. You have paid a high cost.
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2013-5-16 14:53:35 |Display all floors
This post was edited by 眀仴 at 2013-5-16 14:53

you should ask yourself  why you need to merry with him? if you confirm there exist some ture love with each other ,please go ahead

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Post time 2013-5-17 09:46:42 |Display all floors
Guys, this thread is 5 years old. She's still looking so I think she made her decision. ;)

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Post time 2013-5-18 13:32:27 |Display all floors
Smaug Post time: 2013-5-17 09:46
Guys, this thread is 5 years old. She's still looking so I think she made her decision. ;)

Yes, You are very right! Currently I am still in looking for ...
Make the impossible possible

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Post time 2013-5-19 17:47:30 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2013-5-16 14:32
Have you attended in those schools? Seems at least you have learn to write in English. You have pa ...

Never attended it. As a non-native speaker of english, it will be difficult to compare with a native english-speaker. Same as how a non-native putonghua speaker won't be in same level of proficiency with native putonghua speaker.

I partly agree with you. To attend course with teachers consist of migrant losers, imported parasites and economic refugees as teachers is a waste of money.

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Post time 2013-5-19 17:52:02 |Display all floors
debbie520 Post time: 2013-5-18 13:32
Yes, You are very right!  Currently I am still in looking for ...

Try to think like this.

Why he wants to marry you? Is he loser, unemployed and unable to find decent job outside China?

He maybe needs Chinese residence visa to stay in China and the easiest way for him to do this is to cheat a Chinese girl into a marriage. A marriage certificate will secure his stay in China. That means, he may perform very caring, considerate and loyal to you. But he will perform the same to other girls as long as the girl could provide him a marriage certificate.

It's the visa that he's after, not personal affection toward any individual.

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