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Post time 2007-10-10 06:28:54 |Display all floors
I am wondering why people do not like expressing their love openly.At least most people.
Why we don't say that to our parents ,to our friends ,to our relatives?
What are we scared of?Is it selfishness,is it fear and if yes I am wondering why?
Should we hide the most beneficial feeling which is love?



Do you think that deeds are enough to tell love?For me No ,deeds are not enough.
Nothing is taken for granted especially love feelings.
I think we have to say it openly ,everybody needs it.We want to hear it from our children ,from our friends  
and mostly from the person we really love.
I have no fear to express my love openly when my feelings  flood me.I can not hold them
Deeds may be misleading .They are not enough.
A combination of both is necessary.Deeds and words.
Do you agree and in what extent?
I really    love China,半个 中国 人

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Post time 2007-10-10 08:48:17 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-10-10 06:28
I am wondering why people do not like expressing their love openly.At least most people.
Why we don't say that to our parents ,to our friends ,to our relatives?
What are we scared of?Is it selfis ...


hehe...

yes, we are express it less...

I support to show more love openly to your family or friends...but you know , china is a implicative national...so, we express it in heart in most of time...

since the society relation is so complex, so somebody choose to dont show their feeling in public...

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Post time 2007-10-10 09:05:15 |Display all floors
hmm....i will learn to love people as if there is no tomorrow....haha
I don't know if I like you or love you, want you or need you, all I know is I love the feeling I get when I'm near you.

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Post time 2007-10-10 10:05:16 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-10-10 06:28
I am wondering why people do not like expressing their love openly.At least most people.
Why we don't say that to our parents ,to our friends ,to our relatives?
What are we scared of?Is it selfis ...



Could this be due to Christian upbringing...............?

In China, bringing home the meat is sufficient...................
What's on your mind now........ooooooooooooooo la la....Kind Regards

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Post time 2007-10-10 10:13:49 |Display all floors
I wonder whether people must express their love openly?  would The more you express represent more you love? People in china usually keep a sensitive love, so that need a  low-piched way but not a openly way to express, it's deeply,genuine and everlasting!
ice,which is made by water,is colder than that.

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Post time 2007-10-10 10:25:26 |Display all floors

the other kind of love

I prefer to the love without expressing openly
Flying ocean in a silver plane
I miss you~~

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Post time 2007-10-10 10:28:29 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-10-10 06:28
I am wondering why people do not like expressing their love openly.At least most people.
Why we don't say that to our parents ,to our friends ,to our relatives?
What are we scared of?Is it selfis ...


I do not scare to express my love to family,friends,kids,the one who deserve love,but scared to see the ends of love...:)
***always to be yourself***

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