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some of the smartest and richest people I know, Multi-millionaires MANY times over, drive around old crappy cars and dress in kina crappy clothes, you would never know they had more than $20 to their name|
but all the people in their lives a genuine friends and genuine love and caring
so just pretend you dont have any money
i do this alot
i will take a girl window shopping, to see if she is interested in just being with me or just wants me to buy her things
I will ask her if she wants to get a bowl of xin jiang la mian instead of going to a fancy restaurant
i will eat on the street bbq with her
drink our beer from plastic cups
everything like that, I will never give her money or talk about how much I make
until I see she is genuinely interested in me, then i will do nice things for her as I like, Buy her jewely, clothing, etc..
do nice things once in a while
but i always first ask her if she wants to do something like walk along the river with me at night and eat something on the street
then I will surprise her once we are at the river, by 'spontaneously ' going on a river boat buffet cruise..
I do this stuff alot
ask her to do something simple and inexpensive or free and somewhat romantic, then surpirise her with a trip out of town, or something better than she was expecting us to do,
like ask her to sleep in a 1 star hotel with me, then spring for a 5 star at the last minute
you should try it.. it really is fun..
and if she doesnt want to, or acts too cool, or too rich or too spoiled or too special to do it, I wont be interested in her..
dont spend money on them to impress them
spend money on them because they deserve it
and dont start anything intimate until you know what kind of girl she is
if she seems to have a hard time sitting still with you and seems to have other things to do that are more important than you, thats a sure sign that she probably has lots of bf's and is just looking for more attention
eat at poor places, and see if she is willing to go dutch, or AA, or even pay by herself for you sometimes...
then gradually you can take over all financial matters for her, as you learn to trust her more completely