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Post time 2007-6-4 15:20:08 |Display all floors

I am

Originally posted by shelleybelly at 2007-6-4 15:04

I feel that you are a very traditional lady..



I am and this is so stupid.So stupid .So useless.It buries our heart into a grave.We do not enjoy anything.
You are so clever and well balancing lady.I admire you
I really    love China,半个 中国 人

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Post time 2007-6-4 15:37:16 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-6-4 15:20



I am and this is so stupid.So stupid .So useless.It buries our heart into a grave.We do not enjoy anything.
You are so clever and well balancing lady.I admire you


I AM HAPPY THAT YOU WOULD BE ABLE TO LIVE FOR URSELF...

anyway,life is so short,,
you deserve a better life,
you deserve to take care of yourself,,,

sorry since I understand ur background,I won't try to keep ur obligation..:)
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Post time 2007-6-4 15:43:46 |Display all floors

thank you so much

Originally posted by shelleybelly at 2007-6-4 15:37


I AM HAPPY THAT YOU WOULD BE ABLE TO LIVE FOR URSELF...

anyway,life is so short,,
you deserve a better life,
you deserve to take care of yourself,,,

sorry since I understand ur backgrou ...
I really    love China,半个 中国 人

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Post time 2007-6-4 16:10:28 |Display all floors
1. Parents want you to be happy every day, so they give you advice from their whole life's experience. So most of time I obey their thoughts.

2. But in my opinion parents' advice is towards to the safety way, give you the way that life can go smooth.  When I decided to be a police-woman, they stongly against me.

T
hat job is dangerous in their mind. I understand them but I cant obey them, and now I am taking the test and wish to pass it.

3. Now my mother is agree my decision, but my father...

K
eep trying..

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Post time 2007-6-4 16:55:06 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-6-4 04:52
As a child I had always tried to fullfil my mother's dreams.She had a really convincing way to manipulate me.I have learned to obey her desires and morals.
To cut the long story short ,she believe ...


Most of time, we just don't wanna let our parents down. When I was a little child , I obeyed every word my

parents told me. Moreover, I thought what they said are reasonable and right. What I need to do is to follow

their orders.   Bit by bit, I found that our opinions and views on some issues were different from one another.
Sometimes completely different. Then I had my own thoughts and they allowed some free space for me...

Anyhow , no parents in the world don't love their children. Though we sometimes share sheerly different

perspectives, I seldom(just one or twice) got them agitated.

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Post time 2007-6-4 16:58:35 |Display all floors
Originally posted by robertcheng at 2007-6-4 16:55


Most of time, we just don't wanna let our parents down. When I was a little child , I obeyed every word my

parents told me. Moreover, I thought what they said are reasonable and right. What ...


i did not bother my parents much

as long as i brought the meat back...................
What's on your mind now........ooooooooooooooo la la....Kind Regards

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Post time 2007-6-4 17:35:22 |Display all floors
Originally posted by caringhk at 2007-6-4 16:58


i did not bother my parents much

as long as i brought the meat back...................



Your parents must be glad and are proud of you...:)
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