Author: xilaren

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Post time 2007-5-30 01:39:19 |Display all floors

The creep need to be publicly exposed

From your description it seems that there was an attempted seduction that was discovered before any actual sexual acts occurred.  I don't know if his actions violate the laws where you are or if a good legal case can be made against him.  However, in any case his behavior needs to be publicly exposed.  He CANNOT be allowed to remain a teacher continuing to put other children in danger.  He nees to find another line of work.

Will revealing his actions and booting him from his job have lifelong consequences for him?  Probably.  That's ok.  Many of our decisions,.both good and bad, have lifelong consequences for us.  In his case he screwed up big time and should expect to pay a price for it.  Whether his wife chooses to leave him or stay with him is up to her.  Whether God chooses to forgive him after his death is up to God.
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Post time 2007-5-30 02:16:07 |Display all floors

I think the most important point is

Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-5-28 05:40
I have been in a dilemma recently.Somebody tried to abuse a relative's child.Fortunately he was revealed in a proper time but he deserves to be prosecuted.
I am in a dilemma about what to suggest. ...


how to protect the child or other children who might be endanger by his behavior.
The fact is we are not God or juries. We are not able to know all the facts to make a fair judgment on his deed, intention and sincerity of his remorse.  
I think it is better to report to the appropriate authority or organization to handle the whole situation unless you are sure the children's interest will be protected by keeping it private.

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Post time 2007-5-30 03:41:59 |Display all floors

I agree

Originally posted by tradervic at 2007-5-29 23:22


"Be peaceful, be courteous, obey the law, respect everyone; but if someone puts his hand on you, send him to the cemetery." - Malcolm X

Cut this jack@$$'s balls off.  If he tries a ...



with a very sharp knife.
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Post time 2007-5-30 03:48:42 |Display all floors

to everybody who has given me an answer

Thank you very much all of you for your answers.

This is the time I am going to be really cruel and tough to him.I desire his punishment.
It was not an instant desire of his for the child.I could have justified him a little bit.
This bastard had been trying for years to create the proper atmosphere so the child be convinced about his good intentions.In addition he pretendd that he was a very good friend of the child's family.
His dirty deed was completely intentional.I do not care if he is going to lose his job or his wife.
No mercy to him.
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Post time 2007-5-30 03:58:44 |Display all floors

Reply to #58 Xilaren

I really admire your courage and determination to protect the children.
But please handle it with a cool and calm mind.
Best wishes for the girl and her family.

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Post time 2007-5-30 04:22:13 |Display all floors

I say

you should definitely sue him for child molestation aka child sexual abuse, just to teach him a lesson. I mean, he tried to have sex with a 13 year old. he deserves punishment and needs to consult a psych therapist. if you were to let him get away with this now, he could be doing this again which will make him a threat to other innocent minors out there.
one question, what's a downstairs??????

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Post time 2007-5-30 06:47:33 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-5-30 03:48
Thank you very much all of you for your answers.

This is the time I am going to be really cruel and tough to him.I desire his punishment.
It was not an instant desire of his for the child.I cou ...

he has committed the crime for more than once ,right?now the bastard deserves the punishment.he should pay for it.what he does has devastated the image of holy teacher

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