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Post time 2007-5-25 10:42:13 |Display all floors
Originally posted by changzhou007 at 2007-5-25 10:14
Hey, guys, are we missing the points?

The thing is people and people have the tendency to open their mouths rather than straighten up their ears.

Therefore, like other l ...


i think you mean

1) those who shoot 1st.....

2) the Loud mouths....

3) Empty barrels/cans noisest....
What's on your mind now........ooooooooooooooo la la....Kind Regards

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Post time 2007-5-26 08:49:45 |Display all floors
Originally posted by beatrice591 at 2007-5-24 11:14

as for  this topic , in my humble opinion,i have some points sharing with all as follows:

1.listening to others is an etiquette, which expresses that  u have a respect to the part.

2.listening to others is a symbol of self-confidence.

3.listening to others is not  to listen all the time . for my part ,you must keep pace with the speaking one 's mind and then at some proper time give some questions by logic and comment ,as a good listener.

4.sometimes u must learn to say no when listening . it is like other behavious .when necessary u must refuse it .

5.please assure the meaning others want to express is full and completed before u open your mouth to give some opinions .  


Well put (said), insightful and thoughtful, neat and clean, like a painting, a picture … and deserved to be framed and hung on the wall.

Adding even one more stroke would spoil it.

Audiences can't help but listening, absorbedly and engrossedly.   

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Post time 2007-5-27 00:28:02 |Display all floors
I don't think I'm a good listener.
That's not because I always interrupt others's talk, on the contrary, I'm not smart enough to reponse to others'  view.
Sometimes it's difficult for me to give my opinion when it's my turn.
Maybe I am lack of the aptitude to well communicate with others.

Cooperation is emphasized In this term's study. So Many times we have to solve a problem in a small group. For example , first we talk about our ideas, then achieve a conclusion and choose someone as the delegate to show our group's opinion. But I can't participate in the group's discussion actively, Maybe because I know little about or have no interests in the topics , but my poor communication ability also result in it.


Anyone have any advice for me? I will show my appreciation to your suggestion.

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Post time 2007-5-28 08:30:33 |Display all floors

Never withdraw yourself from the team ...

Originally posted by loreamjin at 2007-5-27 00:28
I don't think I'm a good listener.
That's not because I always interrupt others's talk, on the contrary, I'm not smart enough to reponse to others'  view.
Sometimes it's difficult for me to give ...


The game plan …

First of all, to be part of  the team, be interested in others, be involved,

Never withdraw yourself from the team ... being turned off, get frustrated,

Take part in the team, no matter what part  you will play …

The rest will fall into places …

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Post time 2007-5-29 16:13:28 |Display all floors
Originally posted by changzhou007 at 2007-5-28 08:30


The game plan …

First of all, to be part of  the team, be interested in others, be involved,

Never withdraw yourself from the team ... being turned off, get frustrated,

Take  ...






Thank you for  your suggestions, I never  isolate myself from the team.
The problem is that I can't do as better as someone else in the group.Then it is hard for me to bring up a topic for discussion to get all others involved in.

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Post time 2007-5-30 08:10:04 |Display all floors
Originally posted by loreamjin at 2007-5-29 16:13
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Thank you for  your suggestions, I never  isolate myself from the team.
The problem is that I can't do as better as someone else in the group.Then it is h ...


Rather than giving you another general suggestion, why not do something practical (hand-on), by posting a thread (a topic) in this free-talk forum?

1. making a list of ten topics.
2. picking one to post here.

To see how it goes, if the number of participants are turned out small, post another one. Keep trying and you will make it …

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Post time 2007-5-30 09:56:56 |Display all floors
more listen, less talk

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