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What i do is, listening attentively when someone's talking to me, giving my reponse after esmitating how much impact it will exert on the speaker's mood( that's to say, if my opinion is not in line with his, I have to think about whether and how to say it......it's all based on how much i know about that person).|
Pay attention to his voice and tones, and then I will know if it's the right time to make my speech even if it's an interruption. Sometimes interruption is necessary. If my opinion is just the same as his, the interruption will back and cheer him up, and the conversation will rise to a new level. If not, that interruption will let him know my thought. Maybe it's helpful to him, and maybe it's a sign for him to shift parnter......
But I just want to say, is that so complicated?.......when I'm doing listening or talking, I just watch others face and then naturally, i will know how to carry on or quit.......when i'm being cut off, again watching others face, i will know if i should still continue or just take a smile and stop.......don't you deal with it like that???