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Mixed marriages on the increase
By Wang Zhuoqiong (China Daily)
Updated: 2007-06-14 06:55


For months they cooked in the same kitchen at college in London, each of them preparing their own meal, trying not to make it too obvious that something else was brewing.

It was a love match in the making. The ingredients: a Chinese girl named Cao Wei and a French boy called Patrick Rioual.

Casual glances and occasional chitchat soon turned in to a coffee date.

The rest is history, and 10 years on, happily married and living in Beijing, the couple have a 2-year-old son.

"Yes. He has big eyes and a large nose," said Cao, 38, a self-employed jewelry dealer. "But he is not foreign to me. He is my husband, my family."

Cao and Rioual are among a growing number of mixed couples in China, and "a natural social phenomena", said Xu Anqi, a sociologist at the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences.

Last year, 68,000 mixed couples registered for marriage, 4,000 more than in 2005.

Nationwide, 9.45 million couples tied the knot, an increase of 1.21 million, according to statistics from the Ministry of Civil Affairs.

"Frequent migration across borders, driven by the country's rapid economic growth, is a major reason behind the growing number of mixed marriages," Xu said.

"Also, foreigners who are traveling to or are working in China are mostly at the typical age to marry."

But the marriage rate is not the only thing changing. So are attitudes about interracial partnerships.

One is the common misconception about mixed marriages. "It used to be about Chinese women marrying Western men for money," Xu said.

"Now we see that love plays a more important role in mixed marriages.

"Also, don't be surprised to see more Chinese men getting married to Western women."

Official figures from Shanghai show that in the city alone, 372 Chinese men were in interracial marriages in 2005, up from 91 men 20 years earlier.

And a 2002 figure suggests the age difference was an average of about 5 years, narrowing from before.

But there are always challenges for couples in mixed marriages, and there are the little cultural differences that can lead to misunderstandings and friction.

"It is more difficult to adjust to each other when you are from a different group of people," Xu said.In 2005, 8,267 mixed couples filed for divorce, up 42 percent from 2004.

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Post time 2007-6-14 22:58:36 |Display all floors

No problem between races

Originally posted by changabula at 2007-4-13 17:43
What do you think of interracial marriages?

What problems do you foresee for the children of such marriages?
How will it affect society in th future?

Only problem between people.
Within marriage, race issue is minor, cultural difference plays a much bigger role.

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Post time 2007-6-15 00:43:29 |Display all floors
Very true.

Originally posted by holidays at 2007-6-14 22:58

Only problem between people.
Within marriage, race issue is minor, cultural difference plays a much bigger role.



Racial differences in themselves does not have anything to do with the properness of marriage.

In many areas interracial marriages are becoming increasingly common. People are traveling more, and often find the ways and customs of people of other lands attractive. War, too, has played a part, with soldiers sometimes marrying  women from other cultures.

Persons of different races may have very similar backgrounds, culturally, socially and as to education. Or their backgrounds may be very different. Sometimes the varied habits, attitudes and customs that go with different backgrounds seem to add interest to the marriage union.

Yet widely differing backgrounds, even among marriage mates of the same race, can and sometimes do give rise to problems, making marital adjustment more difficult. You could find it difficult to enjoy living with someone whose life-style, expectations, and tastes in food, music, and entertainment are so different from yours.

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Post time 2007-6-15 03:21:51 |Display all floors

He has his good days...

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I do not think he was always "bad", a pain in the @$$ maybe, but not "bad".  

Reality is that for better or for worse, the world is becoming a smaller place.  We are all guessing, but it will be our great grandchildren who will decide if this 'grand experiment' was worth it.

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Post time 2007-6-15 17:11:07 |Display all floors
Mixed marriages, what's your opinion?

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Last year, 68,000 mixed couples registered for marriage, 4,000 more than in 2005.
Nationwide, 9.45 million couples tied the knot, an increase of 1.21 million, according to statistics from the Ministry of Civil Affairs. "Frequent migration across borders, driven by the country's rapid economic growth, is a major reason behind the growing number of mixed marriages," Xu said.
"Also, foreigners who are traveling to or are working in China are mostly at the typical age to marry."
But the marriage rate is not the only thing changing. So are attitudes about interracial partnerships.
One is the common misconception about mixed marriages. "It used to be about Chinese women marrying Western men for money," Xu said.
"Now we see that love plays a more important role in mixed marriages.
"Also, don't be surprised to see more Chinese men getting married to Western women."
Official figures from Shanghai show that in the city alone, 372 Chinese men were in interracial marriages in 2005, up from 91 men 20 years earlier.
And a 2002 figure suggests the age difference was an average of about 5 years, narrowing from before.
But there are always challenges for couples in mixed marriages, and there are the little cultural differences that can lead to misunderstandings and friction. "It is more difficult to adjust to each other when you are from a different group of people," Xu said.In 2005, 8,267 mixed couples filed for divorce, up 42 percent from 2004.
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Black Women White Men, White Women Black Men - interracial relations

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