it is very hard for me to speak out my pressure accurately. it just like a batch of clouds around my heart where there is no fresh air and winds.the 1st problem is that i don't like my current job even it is stable even i have been working for 8 years.8years mean all of my precious youngth.i always hold the idea to make a leave.so i made efforts to go abroad .however unfortunately the standard for immigration has been raised beyond my capacity .so i am confronting the tough choice to continue or abandon?
to continue,as my age goes on ,the hope seems to be slim.expecially my parents ,they are expecting me to get married with some one even he is a common person,a guy who is shorter than me,who don't have personality i appreciate.
to abandon will definitely result in my unhappiness in wholelife. no future,no lover.lover is not equal to hasband.utill today i know many people marry just in order to fulfill their mission as a person.it seems to be unimportant if the person they will call darling is the one they swear to love.under such circumstance no one can assure your final happiness in life including in marriage.
Originally posted by ancientpride at 2009-7-3 17:46
it is very hard for me to speak out my pressure accurately. it just like a batch of clouds around my heart where there is no fresh air and winds.the 1st problem is that i don't like my current job ...
Support you !!!
But it's life,it's really life!
Pressure exist in here and there
And we just adjust it
Nowadays really love is few
We all don't need pressure,include marriage,even you parents
every is faced with pressure , and it is very important how to deel with such a problem . it's not living in a modern society brings us the pressure, maybe lived in the ancient time it's not simple pressure such as loan , job ,ect, it's the opportunity of survive.
pressure is not a problem. the problem is what would you do under pressure? Liife is not easy for
anyone..Nobody satisifiy his life forever, so what we need to learn is how to live in such a busy and