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thick face is a must!!
Somehow, I always wonder why we are so afraid of being labeled "thick-face" or the likes.Just now, the answer knocked my mind. That's how we evaluate others, we think they are bold, careless, direct. It definitely gives us a negative feeling. So when we are faced with the same things as they do, we just have the same ugly thought on ourselves.|
However, is it that ugly?I don't think so. What about trying to have a good word on it? say, they are smart and sophisticated enough to express themselves in a strong way that others can not. They don't care much, don't load on themselves excessive worry about others eye before making an action. They know how to grasp every chance and make good use of it to realize their purpose.......
Then, it stucks me that, we are always told to focus on the bright side of others.Of course, we can't and don't have to totally ignore their shortcomings. But when we see things and people in a postive way, we find happiness more easily and it lasts longer.So as to the topic, If we try to change our point of view, drive away as much as you can the negative comments on others bahaviour, focus on their good point, their guts in doing everything, then it'll be no thick-face issue bothering you any more.
well, the above is all based on you are getting down to legitimate and reasonable business.!!!
take a breath!!
you may also take all of it as a self-deceit. em~~~~~~~you can say that. I admit. That's only my way of dealing with this kind of problem. What I want is to share with you the best way of mine in making myself happy and relaxed~
speaking to black heart, that's not good and can't work a long time.A successful businessman is aggresive,visionary,savvy......but not necessarily black-hearted, I think.
haha! I have no experience and too ill-qualified to address on business issue..