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Falling in Love through Internet ?
Originally posted by shun2006 at 2007-1-14 19:08
Should we be sure about the feeling sparked over the interent? if the answer is yes, then go for a try.
Here is my earlier post under the thread " Falling in love through internet" ?
Falling in love through internet ???? Sure! It's just a new face to the age old question of love at first sight! In today's terms it is love at first site. Like any relationship though, you may know you are in love, but it is still going to take some time to develop it.
Can you meet someone great on the Internet? Sure, but there are also a great many people who lie about everything; their appearance, age and status. Online relationships don't allow you to see their regular life, nor can you see personal behaviors that may disturb you.
You may talk to someone ten times a day, you may chat for hours on instant messenger and feel as though you've never met someone who connects so well with you, and, well, to be honest, that much is true, because other than the actual words being used, every other part of that conversation is a figment of your imagination and is going to fit whatever idealistic image you have in your head. Who adds the emotion, the tone of voice, the laughs, the facial expressions, the background, the feeling to every conversation? the reader does.
So, it is not the individual that you think you are in love with, it is YOUR imagination, YOUR image, the way YOU hear words being spoken to you, the expressions, the emotions that YOU add into written words. You think you are in love, and maybe you are, but it is with something that may not be reality.
A man will claim to be in love, to have a million feelings, to say everything a woman wants to hear because the internet, to a man is simply a bigger meat market. 85 percent of the time, its about nothing more then "fun" with men online. They'll say anything, do anything, travel numerous distances, and its all just to get a woman for fun. With a woman, she truly wants love, she's truly looking for it, desires it, craves it, and is easily blinded by the man who claims to have it for her.
Falling in love over the internet can happen. May be some people dont believe it but its true. It's possible, but it's very, very unlikely, and it's more likely to be infatuation than love. It IS however, possible to be both infatuated and in love. Many people confuse the two. Note that infatuation is not the same as love or lust.
BUT if you do decide to meet this person make sure you have a friend that is watching from somewhere in case something goes wrong, cause you never know these people now days.
DR's Advice : Proceed with caution.