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most of ppl always say marriage is like a castle ,the ppl outside want to enter but ones inside want to out.Maybe it is like a paradox.yeah,i have the same question.why you chose to marry with him since you feel depressed?Maybe youself don't know how to answer my question .love is a riddle .|
I am a college student and now a junior .marriage seems too far for me .maybe it is related to my character so that i don't want to marry early and pursue free life .in my opinion,nowadays the girls become more realistic .they pursue love,meanwhile ,they want to lead a high quality life ,therefore,most of girls won't eliminate the family background or whether the future spouse has a promising future.Don't give a quite high standare,at least,it can promise the couple will have a happy life.the definition of happiness is not sure,depending on different ppl.
now you have got married with him,which becomes a unchangeable fact. if you don't hope to change or can't change it,the only thing u can do is accept it,whatever good or bad.all right,he must have some merits u appreciate since u choose to marry him.Think of his some merits when some unhappy things happen.and communicate with him as many as u can and tell him how you think in your heart .love needs each other's understanding and respect.
Hope you have a happy life!!!