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Since I am an introverted person and poor at expressing my feelings, I know very well what it is like when you are lonesome and eager for some womanly comfort yet cluess about how to get it. |
I have more failed attempts in seeking the favor of nice girls than successful ones, but because I believe the philosophy that "better to make a mistake rather than miss the opportunity"(ningyuan cuoguo, buyuan guocuo) and always get prepared for new attempts, there have also successful ones, lol.
As for the game of courtship, I have the following to say:
At first, do not take it too seriously, or it will hurt.
Secondly, have clear self-knowledge and the knowledge of the one you take fancy, and check whether the gap between she and you can be filled through your personal efforts. If the image of our White Horse Princess is as wonderful as the one in the fairtale, being handsome and manly and wealthy and humorous etc, while you do not quite gratify those requisites, then you'd better change your direction and take special notices of others nice girls passing beside you.
And thridly, while sincere and devoted to the one you love, do not tell her everything about yourself, especially those things that may disappoint her. Show the fair side about yourself to her and leave something to yourself so as to produce an mysterious effect that serve to incite her curiocity to you. When in love, one thing is especially important, that is, not to love your independance.
And fourth, try to learn some tricks. Love is by no means abstract and it is as noble as it seems to be. Love without sex is not love, or at least not complete love. When your relationship is established, not necessarily very firmly, you can proceed to win her over you physically. Only after you sleep together, you can see this is my girl, she is mine. Remember, girls like sweet words, they like lies, as long as they are sweet, more than truth.
And fifthly, even in love, do not confine your male interest in the only girl in your arms, and still take notice of charming girls passing by, in secret. When you can establish serious relaship with more than a girl, or quite a few girls at the same time, then you will be able to taste something amazing and thrilling that you can only encounter in the adventure novels otherwise.
Much to learn...buddy!