I am a foreign woman married to a chinese man. We have 2 daughters and another baby coming next
year. I think that perhaps many chinese men need to fulfill the needs of their parents more then chinese women so the women are more prone to marry who they fall in love with. I do not think its common at all. I hardly ever see a white woman with a chinese man. It's just how things are.
Actually many chinese in America keep to themselves. I am American and i always thought Chinese don't like anything but chinese. Many Americans think the same. It's just when Chinese no matter what part of china they come from they all stick together in a tight group and dont really test outside the waters. American culture if you can call it that can be too open for many chinese and they might feel the need to stay closer together. I always found asian men *chinese* to be very attractive however, i always felt that they stayed with their own kind. Of course this was til i dated and later married my Husband. :)
White girl and Chinese man does happen. :) Just rarely.
I was told that any western lady will turn out a lucky one if she's got a chance to marry a chinese man, as her marriage will 100% end up in happiness...! God bless those that intend to tie a 'knot' with chiese guys...!!!